New Baby and Other Children
Before a new baby arrives, it is best to prepare older children by talking with
them about the baby. You can invite them to go shopping for baby clothing
and accessories. Be careful not to talk too much about the coming baby,
however, because your other children may become jealous. When the baby
arrives, try not to focus attention exclusively on the baby when your older
children are present. Sometimes, older children may think that their parents
like the baby more than them if their parents are always talking about the
new baby. Try to give the older children a little more attention to reassure
them that they are still loved. Involve your older children in bathing the baby,
changing diapers, and other simple routines. The arrival of a new baby can be
difficult, especially for children under five. Parents need to be under¬standing,
patient, and loving at this time.